Sunday, 5 March 2017

Long distance relationships usually do not work

Long distance relationships demand an extreme level of commitment to keep the relationship alive and going. It requires almost double the commitment than what you usually need in a normal relationship (I have never had a normal real life relationship and the only relationship I had was a Long distance one). I didn't even knew the kind of shit I was into. I only got to know that I was in fact in a LDR only after it had ended. The reason why it fails is because textual words can be easily misinterpreted or misunderstood by each other when one is not aware of other's body language which normally would put the textual words in the right context.

5 Reasons Why Long Distance Relationships Never Work

One example was when I texted the person's nick name thrice on the chat window and the person thought that I was approaching towards her for intimacy when I actually didn't really mean it that way in the first place. I didn't bothered to explain this to the person that she had me wrong as I thought it would embarrass her if I had corrected her and also she was quite happy with it and left it as it is but who would have thought that it would backfire me after few days when she rejected me by saying "I do not wish to be with a person who cannot control his passions". Well, I am not someone who gets his boxers wet too soon.